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Woman who helped deliver her best friend

A lady who helped ship her greatest pal’s child has been left heartbroken after she found that her personal husband was the daddy of the kid.

 

Hailey Custer, 28, from Wickenburg, Arizona, stated she was devastated when she discovered out her husband of six years, Travis Bowling, 36, had allegedly cheated on her along with her shut pal.

 

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Woman who helped deliver her best friend

 

The mother-of-four stated after being there ‘each step of the way in which’ to assist her unnamed greatest pal through the being pregnant and delivery, together with carrying the hospital’s ‘daddy wrist band’ – she was shocked when she noticed a delivery defect on the infant’s neck that was equivalent to 1 her husband has. 

 

After confronting the pair about delivery defect, she claimed her worst fears had been confirmed and she or he now alleges that Bowling had cheated on her with as much as 30 girls throughout their marriage. 

 

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Regardless of the infidelity, Custer stated she welcomed her pal into her house after she gave delivery as a result of she had ‘nowhere to go.’ She stated: ‘I stored considering of my children, on the finish of the day that’s their blood sibling and I am not going to be the one who causes hurt to that youngster.’ 

 

Woman who helped deliver her best friend

 

Custer, who’s a recovering drug addict, shared her story on TikTok and she or he shortly went viral.

 

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She defined that she determined to get sober after she grew to become pregnant along with her personal youngster years earlier. And he or she needed to assist her pal, who was additionally an addict, do the identical.

 

‘I had been pressured to sober up as a result of I discovered I used to be pregnant,’ she defined.

 

‘After I discovered my pal was utilizing and she or he discovered she was pregnant, I needed to do what was proper and guarantee that she was secure and brought care of.’  

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Custer, who works in administration, additionally opened up concerning the state of affairs to Caters Information, and she or he instructed them that she observed her pal and her husband getting shut, however did not assume something of it.

 

‘We’re all charismatic folks, so all of us had that nature to be charismatic round one another and make jokes. I did not see something there,’ she stated. ‘I used to be very naïve so I simply did not assume it could be doable for somebody to do this.’

 

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She defined that she helped take her pal to docs appointments, drove her to the hospital whereas she was in labor, and was proper by her facet when she gave delivery. 

 

Woman who helped deliver her best friend

 

‘It was a good looking expertise for me on the finish of the day, I’ll always remember that. I used to be simply completely satisfied to be part of that,’ she added on TikTok. 

 

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She additionally instructed Caters, ‘Within the hospital earlier than I discovered, I stepped into that father determine position. I used to be there for her each step of the way in which. Even within the hospital, I wore the daddy wrist band, when she obtained her epidural, she laid on me. I really gave the infant her first tub.’  

 

However when she observed a hereditary defect on the infant’s neck a couple of days after they obtained house from the hospital, she claimed that she knew instantly that the infant was her husband’s.

 

‘I am very aware of [the hereditary defect] as a result of my older son has it – it is an additional piece of cartilage that grows out of the facet of his neck,’ she defined on the video streaming app.

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‘I used to be altering her daughter and I observed that she had what we name the Bowling bumps, and several other of his different youngsters have it as nicely, so I knew precisely that that child was my husbands.’ 

 

She instructed Caters that she remembered feeling ‘shock come over her.’  

 

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She added, ‘After I discovered my pal was standing subsequent to me, I checked out her and you would simply inform. She could not say something, she simply dropped her head and regarded to the ground, and I simply knew.

 

‘There have been no phrases that had been stated, I simply knew. For me, I used to be in a state of shock for a little bit bit. I walked exterior after I first discovered and simply prayed.

 

‘I stored listening to the phrases time and again in my head – “greater image.” For me that meant, cease together with your tunnel imaginative and prescient.

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‘I used to be in plenty of shock at first I could not even course of what had occurred, it was nearly like a stage of grief.

 

‘Like you may have your shock, your anger, and then you definately come to the conclusion that that is really actual life, that is really occurring.’  

 

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However Custer stated she was eager to assist her greatest pal and continued to let her reside at her home.

 

She instructed Caters, ‘Now we now have this harmless youngster who had no say on this complete state of affairs, you may have somebody who does not have anyplace to go, who has no household, we’re not going to kick them to the streets.

 

‘I stored considering of my children, on the finish of the day that’s their blood sibling and I am not going to be the one who causes hurt to that youngster. So, she ended up staying with us.’

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‘We stayed mates proper after. I used to be upset, do not get me improper, however she stayed at our home,’ she additionally stated on TikTok. ‘She helped with my children and I helped along with her child. We mainly performed home collectively whereas he was out doing no matter he needed to do. 

 

‘They stayed with us and I ended up taking good care of the infant. The dad was by no means round, nonetheless battling habit and could not take duty – he did not wish to admit it was his. 

 

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‘There have been a pair cases the place he got here house, and he was upset and he really bodily abused each of us.

 

‘I at all times say that she was a sufferer as nicely. Particularly while you’re coping with habit, you will do something on your drug of alternative and he was the most important drug seller the place I am from. So it’s what it’s, I get it.’   

 

After the alleged heartbreaking ordeal, Hailey stated she discovered forgiveness inside herself.

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She defined on TikTok, ‘The whole lot occurs for a purpose and I am nonetheless mates along with her at the moment. I nonetheless love her, I forgive her I simply hope she will forgive herself. Everybody makes errors.

 

‘There isn’t any hate in my coronary heart for both social gathering. My ex-husband and me have three youngsters collectively so I’ve to co-parent with him. And on the finish of the day, my now ex-best pal’s daughter is my youngsters’s sister. So I do not maintain any hate in my coronary heart.’

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